The mistress phenomenon among high-ranking officials

Thekabarnews.com—Teachers in sex education always tell their students, “You have to use protection when you grow up.” The strange thing is that in this republic, the people who are most against protection are generally high-ranking officials. As power increases, common sense tends to erode. As grant money gets tighter, conscience gets weaker.

Let’s discuss the concept of a mistress while we drink a cup of sugarless coffee (Koptagul) to stay awake.

Kusnadi, a former East Java DPRD official, is a shining example of this. He is like a patient with uncontrollable “power hormones.” Beyond his official marriage, he carried on an affair with Fujika Senna Oktavia, a siri wife who did far more than provide romance—she functioned as a financial reproductive organ.

Fujika seemed like a talented student at the Surabaya Corruption Court hearing on January 30, 2026. She finally told the school counselor that she was the second wife, that she got properties worth tens of billions of rupiah, and that roughly Rp10 billion went into her company. She has just done it; relax and be without shame.

A mistress is like a womb for money laundering in the anatomy of corruption. High officials take dirty money from grants, store it in secret accounts, and transform it into luxury homes, gleaming cars, and companies with elegant-sounding names. It all seems lawful, like infants in test tubes: ethically wrong yet elegant from an administrative perspective.

The Corruption Eradication Commission (KPK) often shows up like midwives, but they usually just check the pulse.
They have already transferred the evidence. The money has been raised, taught, and maybe even married off to another account. The affair is not just cheating; it is an illegal relationship that follows MBA rules.

The affair is not a problem that only happens in Indonesia. Approximately 90% of Chinese officials convicted of serious corruption had mistresses, according to reports. Liu Zhijun kept 18 mistresses, and Lai Xiaomin reportedly kept nearly 100. That is not libido; it is too many hormones that give you power. The state gets excited, and the people become worn out.

Different flags may fly, but the same problems persist in the Philippines, Nigeria, and Bolivia. Structural testosterone grows when power rises. Men in power feel invincible, like teens who recently found out about VPNs and blocked sites. People think that mistresses are “legal protection,” yet they often end up spreading viruses that let people launder money.

People in Indonesia call this the political sugar daddy system. This is not about love; it is about logistics. A maintained relationship is like a financial condom: you keep your money in it and throw it away when it leaks. But tools that are cheap usually leak. The scandal usually happens when the relationship is too deep and the balance is too big.

The last question about sex education is who really has power—the high official or the mistress who has access to the ATM, the PIN, and the secrets of both the bed and the bank account? Maybe these mistresses are the real secretaries of state, keeping track of money while posting adorable pictures on Instagram.

Imagine a day when someone leaks all the chats, transfers, and home certificates because they have PMS, or Post Moral Syndrome. Screenshots, not a coup, might bring down the state.

Unfortunately, this scenario does not happen very often. The money-laundering machine keeps going. High officials keep wanting more. We, the citizens who were never taught about the ethics of power, can only come to one conclusion: corruption is not just a crime of money in this country. It is a close relationship without any promises or safety, and it invariably ends with a scandalous child.

Marriage is not a second opportunity, and a spouse is not a place to conceal evil. When your income goes up, don’t think that your religion is safe and that your desires should be promoted. Dirty money can be treacherous; if you stumble, your family may also stumble. Wives, do not give up your inner serenity for a short time of luxury. You might show off your expensive bags, but shame and sorrow frequently come silently after midnight.

A healthy household is not about how much stuff you have; it is about how honest you are, how loyal you are, and how brave you are to say “no” when temptation comes with a big envelope.

By: Rosadi Jamani, Chairman of Satupena West Kalimantan.